Orientation Week

I. Up and Down

After a month of language study, my overall English hasn't really jumped. The pre-sessional program is mostly there to help you settle in and pick up some academic English — a transition more than anything. For someone like me with a weak English foundation, it really isn't easy. Even when I listen carefully, I might catch only 70%. Even if I work hard, I might end up at half of where others are. But thinking about it, that's been the pattern across my 20-plus years of studying and living.

I accept my mediocrity and try to do my best. As long as I don't leave myself with regrets, that's good enough.

II. Don't worry about what hasn't happened yet

Don't be anxious about things that haven't happened. Easier said than done — most people, myself included, struggle with this. If you want to dial it down, try meditating, and put real effort into staying in control. I think this matters a lot. Otherwise it drains you, and that drag bleeds into everything else you have to get done.

III. Do what you want to do!

Most people in life have all kinds of things they're tied to. If your finances are reasonably stable, you should choose to do what you love. That's where the odds of being relatively successful and happy go up.

Each stage of life has its own thing to chase. For undergrads, the point may be exploring and enjoying campus life and your youth.

For grad students, you start thinking more about the future, and money. The center of gravity shifts. But who knows what's coming? Enjoy now and do what you want to do.

IV. Hope everyone's happy

Some pictures.